i personally run all my 2 strokes at 32-1 pre mix with decent synthetic oil (take your pick of brand they all do the job)
If you have no sign of hotspots or heat damage and wear on the cylinder and piston then chances are this is not the cause.
big ends generally either just wear slowly with use or prematurely with poor servicing or loss of oil/wrong grade of oil. have you got any movement on the crank shaft?
The hotrods stuff has a great rep but beware of fakes from china being sold on ebay and if buying on ebay try and buy from a hotrods dealer